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Most fights aren’t about what you’re fighting about.

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Seven mistakes almost every couple makes, and one thing to try this week for each.

1Fighting about the topic, not the need
2Believing the story in your head
3Reacting before you pause
4Opening the conversation under fire
5Answering before you understand
6Attacking the person, not the problem
7Letting the emotional account run empty
Rabbi Yitzchak Lasry
Healthy couples don’t fight less. They understand what’s behind the fight, and they solve it together.
Rabbi Yitzchak LasryOrdained by the Chief Rabbinate of Israel. Marriage counselor, life coach and lecturer, serving Jewish communities in the United States since 2013.

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